What is family mediation?
August 22, 2023
What is mediation?
Mediation is a service, used by families to assist them in the breakdown of relationships. It is a process where an independent impartial professional, the mediator, assists the family to find a resolution.
Mediation gives you a voice. It allows you stay in control.
The mediator is normally a barrister or a solicitor with substantive experience of family law. The mediator’s role is to be impartial and to provide support and guidance. The mediator will accommodate the needs of the parties.
There is no pressure to sit together or even meet face to face at any stage. There is the option of ‘shuttle’ mediation where the mediator will move between separate rooms.
What is a MIAM?
MIAM stands for Mediation Information & Assessment Meeting, this is the name of the first mediation session.
Usually, these sessions last for approximately one hour. The mediator will explain the mediation process, advise about any other services that can assist and discuss options for finding an agreement.
What areas does Mediation cover?
You can explore a variety of family issues that may require legal expertise.
If you cannot resolve issues about your marriage, children or finances, mediation can help.
If you have children over the age of 10, their views can be considered.
The mediator will aim to assist the family in finding a resolution and putting the agreement into a ‘Memorandum of Understanding’. This Agreement can then be used by your respective solicitors to implement into a Court Order which is a legally binding document.
Is Mediation right for me?
It is recognised that where possible, all families should try to mediate.
Where domestic abuse is present, mediation is inappropriate.
Your mediator or legal representative will explain from the start, whether or not mediation is appropriate.
How much does it cost?
Providing you are being assisted by a mediator authorised by the Family Mediation Council (FMC) you will be eligible for a £500 voucher to contribute towards the costs of mediation.
The cost of mediation can vary. Some families can find resolution quicker than others. You should make enquiries when finding the right mediator as the fees can vary. On average the cost is £140 per person, per hour.
You may also be eligible for Legal Aid.
